CONNECTION
CATALYST
/// a warrior wingwife marital recalibration experience ///
"You've changed my entire existence."
- R. J., USA
Are you a DOUBLE-BIND DAD married to a Critical Wife?
What's a "Double-Bind Dad" you ask?
You're an honorable man who is genuinely trying to do ALL THE THINGS you think you're supposed to do to be a good husband, a good father.
On paper, you're checking all the "boxes" and meeting the criteria for the husband she should be head over heels for.
.... and yet - your experience of your wife is that she's:
DISTANT.
DISCONNECTED.
DISAPPOINTED.
DISGRUNTLED.
She's constantly critical and you feel diminished and defeated as her husband.
The resentment is palpable.
You KNOW she's miserable and you don't know how to solve this for the both of you.
You're damned if you do, and damned if you don't.
You, my friend, are in a double-bind.
You find yourself facing a bleak and unfulfilling future, questioning what has become of you and the love of your life.
Questioning if she even loves you anymore.
Questioning if YOU even love her anymore.
Let's be fair - you DO love her, but you don't feel like you're IN love with her... because it feels like the opportunities to figure that out and make sure... just aren't there.
The two of you are SO disconnected - emotionally, physically, intimately... you can be inches away from each other and still feel miles apart.
Your marriage has downgraded into roommate status - or worse, domestic zombies.
Just getting by with parenting your children and paying the bills.
This is what marriage USED to be.
But not what it's SUPPOSED to be.
The truth is, you are BOTH relationally unfulfilled and it shows.
The connection between the two of you is DIAL-UP DYSFUNCTIONAL when you really need UNBOUNDED BROADBAND BLISS.
If you think the quality of your marriage is accurately described by the jarring sound that spewed out of your CPU when you used the phone line to find the internet, and the painfully slow connection that followed - you KNOW.
But you ALSO know that you are yearning for something more, your wife is yearning for something more - and that's why the two of you are in this marital limbo of not being able to fulfill each other's wants and needs at levels you hoped for and expected after going ALL IN.
Your marriage has reached a ceiling.
Your soul is desperate to break that ceiling - NOT the COVENANT.
Leaving your family and everything you've built is the last thing you want to do and it's essentially off the table.
But you're TERRIFIED of living the rest of your years feeling like you made a mistake and married the wrong woman.
It's permeating and infecting all areas of your life and you constantly dread that one day, she'll take the route so many others have marched proudly - and leave.
That maybe she'll just get so fed up and absolve you of this pain. You've found yourself in moments fantasizing about the freedom this would bring...
but then quickly realize that you've waited all your life for her.
You just want HER back.
Not this version of her that can't stand you.
Can't hear you.
Can't see you.
Can't LOVE you.
What if I told you: there's a way to bring that out of her again?
What if you just needed to be pointed in the right direction?
What if you just needed someone skilled enough, trained enough, and brave enough to pinpoint your blind spots and serve them up to you on a silver platter?
Saying: "HERE'S the problem, and HERE is your solution."
Oh, hi - that's my super power.
I'm Heather Sheard: Marriage Activator.
I Am A Truth-Seeking Warrior. I Stand For Defending Authentic Connection.
Your liberation is on the other side of your
BOILING POINT BREAKTHROUGH:
A mission critical scavenger hunt to turn over every rock in your marriage and find out what is actually causing your PAIN and MISERY - and what to do about it.
/// marital transformation triage.
This is a 6 week 1:1 intensive designed to get you the solutions you're looking for, FAST.
HOW IT WORKS & WHAT YOU GET:
/// 1. INTAKE & PREWORK
We will not be going in blind.
To make the most of your investment, you will do a deep dive answering questions that will help me understand and paint a clear picture of where you are in your marriage and life. Your transformation begins HERE.
There must be a stable understanding of the facts and truth of your current reality.
This process alone will compress months or even years of your progress into a matter of hours.
/// 2. BREAKTHROUGH SESSIONS
Individual or alongside your wife, the choice is yours. (Or hers, depending on whether or not she’s willing to enter the ring. Either way: Game On.)
Prepare for these THREE virtual calls to be 90-120 minutes.
In these sessions, you’ve given me the authority to fight for and defend YOUR MARRIAGE. (Yes, your marriage becomes my client.)
This will be harrowing, humbling, and healing.
Your souls are yearning for this, and it will change your lives forever.
Not only will we uncover the source(s) of your pain, but we will create a custom action plan for you to move forward in faith.
/// 3. INTEGRATION
The breakthrough will hold a mirror to your marriage and show you your blind spots.
This is the start of a new journey and you may want some additional help as you implement new skills and build new habits.
Your investment includes 6 weeks of unlimited 1:1 voice/text messaging support and check-ins with me via the Voxer app (voice and text messaging) to address any questions or concerns that may come up while implementing the course corrections discovered in our breakthrough calls.
/// 4. INVITATION
Boiling Point Breakthrough is the CATALYST to the next level of your marriage.
It may be all you need to finally give you EYES TO SEE so you can create a massive shift in your relationship and change EVERYTHING moving forward. To take the discoveries made and forge ahead with newfound clarity and relief.
For some, you may want guided support in the next chapter of your marriage to ensure you continue making progress and keep up your momentum. Consider it similar to hiring a personal trainer to meet specific fitness goals.
Various packages are available and be rest assured that an invitation will only be extended if it makes sense for everyone involved. Zero pressure, zero obligation.
WHO IS THIS FOR?
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The heart-centered husband who knows he deserves more
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The hopeful husband who WANTS a future with his current wife but knows drastic changes needs to occur
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The providing husband who is confident financial insecurity is not the reason for strain on his marriage
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The ambitious husband who does not want to struggle in connecting with his wife and children
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Close-minded individuals already looking for reasons on why this WON'T work
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Someone who is not looking to take action and doesn't see the value of investing resources into his wife, marriage, or family
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Someone who believes he will instantly fix their marriage just because he threw some money at his problem and doesn't plan to implement anything further
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Individuals or their spouse struggling with serious addictions; unaddressed psychiatric disorders; undiagnosed/unaddressed OCD, ADHD, violence, suicidal ideation, or mental illness; or abuse of any kind
WHO IS THIS NOT FOR?
Minimum 3x Breakthrough Sessions
6 weeks unlimited 1:1 Voice/Text Support
1 Life Changing Experience
Your Investment:
$6997 USD
(Or 3x biweekly payments of $2200)
(Audacious "whatever it takes" Guarantee: I'm currently celebrating my 12th wedding anniversary and want to make sure you make it to your next one. I am so confident I can help you experience a profound shift and transformation in your marriage AND life - that if we can't pull this off in 6 weeks, I will work with you for up to 6 months FOR FREE**.)
(* I will not be held responsible for any tears, healing, resolve, increased communication, elevated connection, exponential fulfillment and legacies carried out as a consequence of making this leap of faith. That credit belongs to you.)
(** Terms and conditions apply - meaning, you must do the work. This is a problem you can't just throw money at and expect it to magically solve itself. I am committed to you if you are committed to going all in.)
“Heather quickly identified the root cause, showed us our “blind spots,” and taught us to see each other’s perspectives. She made observations about my husband that I was not aware of even after ten years of marriage.”
L.T.
California
MEET YOUR TRAINER
WINGWIFE
HEATHER SHEARD
I am a Truth-Seeking Warrior.
I stand for defending
Authentic Connection.
Wait - what's a "Wingwife", you ask?
Simple:
You may have used a "wingman" to break the ice and "get" her.
I help you clear the mud and keep her.
I help you bridge the painful gap between you and your wife, and unlock your ability to love each other again.
I’m a Marriage Transformation Strategist whose goal is to turn couples from “happily married” (whatever that means) or even just “married” – into a pair that is outstandingly, magnificently, radiantly MARRIED AF. (Yes, that does mean Married As Fuck. That's a story for another day.)
Married AF is when you are so undeniably in love, so certain of the person you’ve promised to spend the rest of your life with, that happily married is a wild understatement.
