BOILING POINT
BREAKTHROUGH
/// marital recalibration experience ///
"You've changed my entire existence."
- R. J., USA
Are you a HOPELESS HUSBAND married to a Shut-Down Stay-At-Home Mom?
What's a "Hopeless Husband" you ask?
You're an honorable man who is genuinely trying to do ALL THE THINGS you think you're supposed to do to be a good husband, a good father.
On paper, you're checking all the "boxes" and meeting the criteria for the husband she should be head over heels for.
.... and yet - your experience of your wife is that she's:
DISTANT.
DISCONNECTED.
DISAPPOINTED.
DISGRUNTLED.
She's constantly critical and you feel diminished and defeated as her husband.
The resentment is palpable.
You KNOW she's miserable and you don't know how to solve this for the both of you.
You're damned if you do, and damned if you don't.
You, my friend, are in a double-bind.
You find yourself facing a bleak and unfulfilling future, questioning what has become of you and the love of your life.
Questioning if she even loves you anymore.
Questioning if YOU even love her anymore.
Let's be fair - you DO love her, but you don't feel like you're IN love with her... because it feels like the opportunities to figure that out and make sure... just aren't there.
The two of you are SO disconnected - emotionally, physically, intimately... you can be inches away from each other and still feel miles apart.
Your marriage has downgraded into roommate status - or worse, domestic zombies.
Just getting by with parenting your children and paying the bills.
This is what marriage USED to be.
But not what it's SUPPOSED to be.
You try to talk to her but it feels impossible because she just won’t listen to you.
If she only stopped getting so triggered every time you brought up something that bothered you, maybe the two of you could get somewhere.
Instead, everything ends up being “YOUR fault” and because of this, she doesn’t see the point in seeking outside help after the last attempt was a complete bust.
She wants you to figure this out on your own… but you’re not even really sure what it IS she’s looking for.
If only she could just TELL you outright instead of challenging you to read her mind.
Even when you DO catch a few things that she’s looking for - more help with the kids, more help around the house - you feel like you finally hit the mark!
You feel proud of yourself and anticipate a happy wife, only to find out none of it is up to her standards and it seems like you’re just making things worse and getting in the way.
No happy wife. No happy life.
Date nights and vacations are less than desirable (if you even still take them) because now you feel like you just paid for false hopes - only to end up with the same misery you could have just endured in the comfort of your own home. At least the hostess smiled at you and made you feel visible for a grand total of 2 minutes.
You dare not bring up even the THOUGHT of having sex for fear of yet another rejection, so you wait and hope that maybe she initiates this time.
...But who are you kidding. She's perpetually tired and never in the mood. You wonder if she ever will be again.
The truth is, you are BOTH relationally unfulfilled and it shows.
The connection between the two of you is DIAL-UP DYSFUNCTIONAL when you really need UNLIMITED BROADBAND BLISS.
If you think the quality of your marriage is accurately described by the jarring sound that spewed out of your CPU when you used the phone line to find the internet, and the painfully slow connection that followed - you KNOW.
It's a clusterfuck of screeches and scratches - chaotic and nonsensical, yet you wait until it all settles down because on the other side of it, a connection has been made and you've gotten through.
...kind of.
Sure, she's still married to you...
But the constant feeling of rejection is draining away your sense of power over yourself and your life, and the weight of this permeates through your day after you leave the house.
Tempting you every which way to look where you should not look, and touch what you should not touch.
You witness your friends and colleagues who are suffering the pain and consequences of infidelity or divorce - and you know that this is not the path you want to walk.
Your marriage has reached a ceiling.
Your soul is desperate to break that ceiling - NOT the COVENANT.
Leaving your family and everything you've built is the last thing you want to do and it's essentially off the table.
But you're TERRIFIED of living the rest of your years feeling like you made a mistake and married the wrong woman.
It's permeating and infecting all areas of your life and you constantly dread that one day, she'll take the route so many others have marched proudly - and leave.
That maybe she'll just get so fed up and absolve you of this pain. You've found yourself in moments fantasizing about the freedom this would bring...
but then quickly realize that you've waited all your life for her.
What if I told you: there's a way to wake her up?
What if you just needed to be pointed in the right direction?
What if you just needed someone skilled enough, trained enough, and brave enough to pinpoint your blind spots and serve them up to you on a silver platter?
Saying: "HERE'S the problem, and HERE is your solution."
AND THEN:
with personalized guidance and a FIRE to ensure you win,
You were led,
step by step,
nudge by nudge,
course correction by course correction,
to predictably revive her
ATTRACTION and DESIRE for YOU
so she can finally say:
"There he is. I've missed you. Come to me."
Oh, hi - that's my super power.
I'm Heather Sheard: Marriage Activator.
I Am A Truth-Seeking Warrior. I Stand For Defending Authentic Connection.
Your liberation is on the other side of your
BOILING POINT BREAKTHROUGH:
A mission critical scavenger hunt to turn over every rock in your marriage and find out what is actually causing your PAIN and MISERY, what to do about it, and HOW to do it effectively.
This is a 6 week 1:1 intensive designed to get you the solutions you're looking for, FAST.
/// marital transformation triage.
HOW IT WORKS & WHAT YOU GET:
/// 1. INTAKE & PREWORK
We will not be going in blind.
To make the most of your investment, you will do a deep dive answering questions that will help me understand and paint a clear picture of where you are in your marriage and life. Your transformation begins HERE.
There must be a stable understanding of the facts and truth of your current reality.
This process alone will compress months or even years of your progress into a matter of hours.
/// 2. BREAKTHROUGH SESSIONS
Individual or alongside your wife, the choice is yours. (Or hers, depending on whether or not she’s willing to enter the ring. Either way: Game On.)
Prepare for these FOUR virtual calls to be 90-120 minutes.
In these sessions, you’ve given me the authority to fight for and defend YOUR MARRIAGE. (Yes, your marriage becomes my client.)
This will be harrowing, humbling, and healing.
Your souls are yearning for this, and it will change your lives forever.
Not only will we uncover the source(s) of your pain, but we will create a custom action plan for you to move forward in faith.
/// 3. INTEGRATION
The breakthrough will hold a mirror to your marriage and show you your blind spots.
This is the start of a new journey and you may want some additional help as you implement new skills and build new habits.
Your investment includes 6 weeks of unlimited 1:1 voice/text messaging support and check-ins with me via the Voxer app (voice and text messaging) to address any questions or concerns that may come up while implementing the course corrections discovered in our breakthrough calls.
/// 4. INVITATION
Boiling Point Breakthrough is the CATALYST to the next level of your marriage.
It may be all you need to finally give you EYES TO SEE so you can create a massive shift in your relationship and change EVERYTHING moving forward. To take the discoveries made and forge ahead with newfound clarity and relief.
For some, you may want guided support in the next chapter of your marriage to ensure you continue making progress and keep up your momentum. Consider it similar to hiring a personal trainer to meet specific fitness goals.
Various packages are available and be rest assured that an invitation will only be extended if it makes sense for everyone involved. Zero pressure, zero obligation.
WHO IS THIS FOR?
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The heart-centered husband who knows he deserves more
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The hopeful husband who WANTS a future with his current wife but knows drastic changes needs to occur
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The providing husband who is confident financial insecurity is not the reason for strain on his marriage
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The ambitious husband who does not want to struggle in connecting with his wife and children
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Close-minded individuals already looking for reasons on why this WON'T work
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Someone who is not looking to take action and doesn't see the value of investing resources into his wife, marriage, or family
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Someone who believes he will instantly fix their marriage just because he threw some money at his problem and doesn't plan to implement anything further
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Individuals or their spouse struggling with serious addictions; unaddressed psychiatric disorders; undiagnosed/unaddressed OCD, ADHD, violence, suicidal ideation, or mental illness; abuse of any kind
WHO IS THIS NOT FOR?
Minimum 4x Breakthrough Sessions
6 weeks 1:1 Voice/Text Support
1 Life Changing Experience
Your Investment:
$6997 USD
(Payment Plans Available)
Audacious "Whatever It Takes" Guarantee:
I recently celebrated my 12th wedding anniversary and want to make sure you make it to your next one. I am so confident I can help you experience a profound shift and transformation in your marriage AND life - that if we can't pull this off in 6 weeks, I will work with you for up to 6 months FOR FREE**
“Heather quickly identified the root cause, showed us our “blind spots,” and taught us to see each other’s perspectives. She made observations about my husband that I was not aware of even after ten years of marriage.”
L.T.
California
MEET YOUR TRAINER
WINGWIFE
HEATHER SHEARD
I am a Truth-Seeking Warrior.
I stand for defending
Authentic Connection.
Wait - what's a "Wingwife", you ask?
Simple:
You may have used a "wingman" to break the ice and "get" her.
I help you clear the mud and keep her.
I help you bridge the painful gap between you and your wife, and unlock your ability to love each other again.
I’m a Marriage Transformation Strategist whose goal is to turn couples from “happily married” (whatever that means) or even just “married” – into a pair that is outstandingly, magnificently, radiantly MARRIED AF. (Yes, that does mean Married As Fuck. That's a story for another day.)
Married AF is when you are so undeniably in love, so certain of the person you’ve promised to spend the rest of your life with, that happily married is a wild understatement.
